Let's Talk Thursday: Intimacy Woes

-
Hello Awesome Visitors. Today marks another installment of ...


I want to steer away from the writing and promoting for a moment. I am curious how intimacy has been impacted since the onslaught of this pandemic.



For those of you who are coupled, and one or both of you are deemed essential, do you ever worry about the risk that you may get COVID-19?

Has worry about COVID-19 in a state of coupledom worked to increase the intimacy or sexual activity, or has worry dampened your desires to do anything?

For the uncoupled, does it make you happier to be single?

If you have companions on standby, have you interacted with them less via practicing social distancing? Have you found new ways to communicate without physical visits? Or are you throwing caution to the wind and still getting together anyway?


Well, in case any of you are shy about sharing, I will go first.

  • I have been single for quite a while but haven't been mingling. I don't have a sexual fixer-upper on standby.

  • I have not resumed looking at porn, although I've debated it for weeks now.

  • My toy chest is looking very pathetic. Some new items are needed, but I am curious if these items are now in short supply and have extended shipping dates.

  • Randomly sexting is also tempting yet I don't want to deal with the residual once the pandemic is over with. That's how one gets obsessive types or stalkers.

  • I have six new pairs of what one would consider sexy knickers but have not worn them.

  • Sure, I could go on dating websites, and the possible suitors would be understanding due to the crisis, but what if I end up not liking them in the flesh?

Um ... I guess I'll stay put for now, with the exception of the porn and toy idea.

Toodles,



Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Show Me (Behind the Stuntin')

-
Show me the man behind the stuntin I keep getting this feelin’ that you straight frontin’ Your profile seems too squeaky clean from E-harmony; Your looks getting females shook and all over your Facebook, But it just seems something’s not quite right; I picked up on it from just the first night. No, you didn’t show me any disrespect, But you’ve given me so much stuff to reflect. You spit so much about the things you have, Like the new paint job you just got on your Jag, And the money you dropped on your fancy condo- Floor so clean you can eat off the floor! And I know for many women, you’re totally awesome! But I’m not like most; I proceed with caution. Yes, I’m pleased you finished at the top of your class And there’s no criminal record on your ass And that you’re dressed like a man from GQ- No, I’m not trying to knock what you do! But with all that being said, Tell me what’s going through your head. Without starting the statement wit
Read more

Sweet Dream

-
The rays of the sun poke against my eyelids… Leave me be; I’m not ready to awaken! You see, I am having this most incredible dream! I encountered approximately 6’5” of butter pecan: Eyes, chestnut dark, yet gentle. Lips, full to the brim but soft, Promising himself to me: For us to be Together Forever. Isn’t that the name of a song Or in some song lyric? Saying he’d be bound to me, Not just when things are right, But whenever there are plights. Have I heard it all before? Holding my breath, wondering when he will go out that door Him saying, I won’t leave unless you tell me… Voice turning my iron clad resolve Into a bowl of grape jelly; Lips running a train all over my skin, Generating slow heat beneath my skin, Crooning is this good to you baby Do you like this Or how about this? Thrilled yet pissed That my body’s sensual combination lock Got Hacked by this brand new virus And my senses are spinning And I do
Read more

Let's Talk Thursday: Episode 7

-
Image
Hello Awesome Visitors! Let's talk for a minute. Disclaimer:  Before we go on, I want to let you know on these topics, I'm no expert. I am just speaking on my own experiences or those by others. Let's get to it. Confession:  I absolutely hate Marketing.  I'm not saying that I don't like to meet new people and interact with them.   I'm becoming a wee bit frustrated because what I put out isn't being returned to me. I currently have my regular Facebook page completely public.  As long as someone doesn't cause a ruckus, I have no problem accepting anyone's friend request. When people send me requests to like their pages, I stop by and give it a like.  I have not discriminated on my liking practices either. I figure it in this way:  I'll have it set up this way until I'm given a reason not to. I stop by people's spots and say hi, and even want to get involved in dialogue.  It's a social network, yet no one seems like t
Read more